Comments on: you can’t control or cure nervousness – use it to your advantage

By: m)us

m)us — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 22:10:10 +0000

Guy, I am currently unaware of available resources. I’ll see what I can do to write a post along those lines. It might be along the lines of diplomacy or developing tact.

At times I too say the wrong thing. I believe I’ve learned a number of bad habits at a young age that now I am over cautious. At this moment, I think the solution has two parts. The first is aiming to be constructive and the second is clarity.

BTW, you are an incredible person to have identified your weakness and to have made it your mission to overcome it. Maybe I am pessimistic, however, I feel more people need to be introspective.

Please reply as I love to hear how things go.

By: m)us

m)us — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 21:43:19 +0000

Stuart, it appears you have skipped the critical section “caveat emptor”. Read that section, consider visiting that link and seek professional help. This post isn’t suited for people with anxiety.

By: Guy

Guy — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 08:56:49 +0000

I would really be interested in reading more about obnoxious people. I feel like if I read your in take on it I could learn how to be less obnoxious. I don’t really mean to be obnoxious, but I don’t really see it until afterwards, or I feel like poking fun at other peoples insecurities is really the only thing to say at the time. Sometimes I notice people being considerate and compassionate towards me, and I think “Wow, that was so nice and sincere. Why wouldn’t I ever think to do that?” Anyway, do you think you could maybe point me in the right direction by suggesting another blog/article, or simply replying to this comment? Thanks

By: Stuart Brodie

Stuart Brodie — Sat, 26 Nov 2011 00:28:09 +0000

(you will be alright and you will get better with practice)

Oh great you have told me it will OK and have now solved my nerves, BULLSHIT!
What you are describing is common sense and in-stink. Nerves can be debilitation and can stop people living there lives, so why would you want to keep it?
I suffer from horrible nerves, which stops me from trying new things all together, so slow build up isn’t an option because I AM FUCKING NERVOUS!

Posts like this on the internet damage people and the way they think, people use your common sense!!

By: m)us

m)us — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 13:19:50 +0000

Thanks Ryan. That looks like a great resource for those with a higher nervousness level that this article is not targeting though suited for some of the article’s visitors. I will add it above when I get the chance. Cheers.

By: Ryan Rivera

Ryan Rivera — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 12:17:12 +0000

Hello,

I have a brief editorial question about your recommended resources on your Gutstoglory website’s page located at http://gutstoglory.com/you-cant-control-or-cure-nervousness-use-it-to-your-advantage/

My name is Ryan and I’m an ex-anxiety sufferer (well, almost). There’s a serious lack of credible online information about anxiety. So, to balance that a little bit, I decided to create a well researched guide on the topic which you can find here: http://www.calmclinic.com

Your website lists other related resources, so I thought that it would be useful to your visitors to include a specialized guide like that as well. All of the information was created with the help of a professional psychologist and edited by a professional writer.

Would it be possible for you to take a moment to review and consider including/linking to http://www.calmclinic.com as you feel merited?

Thank you for your time and consideration!

Kind regards,
Ryan Rivera

P.S. There is no “clinic” behind this – that’s just a fancy sounding name!

By: Clayton

Clayton — Sat, 06 Aug 2011 08:50:52 +0000

This is the best advice, I’ve been trying to find way to just let go and be myself, have fun and etc.. So thank you very much and I’ll try this step one by one:)

By: Perlander Williams

Perlander Williams — Thu, 30 Dec 2010 17:31:31 +0000

I do feel that I am being held back because of the shyness, I do remember as a kid hiding behind my shyness, and now I know it was a lack of confidence.

By: m)

m) — Sat, 24 Apr 2010 02:53:19 +0000

I do thank you for your comment. I have added the ‘caveat emptor’ section as it seems that this post is receiving views from an audience that is not my target audience.

“…over simplified…” Yes. This is a blog, which is no place for a research paper. If I manage to inspire 10%, is that bad?

Regarding your ill informed comment, it is impossible for me to be ill informed about what has helped me to use nervousness to my advantage. Never-the-less, two visitors have expected more from this post so I endevour to target the post at my intended audience.

Please continue to send me your criticisms, though try to be constructive at the same time. Cite something specific. If you feel like bashing me instead, go for it. I’ve developed thick skin.

By: someone

someone — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 18:31:16 +0000

I agree with the first comment above. An over simplified and somewhat ill informed article.